Signs You’re Not Living in Your God-Given Purpose
Have you ever had that nagging feeling like something in your life is just off?
You’re doing all the things—checking boxes, showing up, getting stuff done—but deep down, you’re wondering, Is this it?
Spoiler: If you’re asking that question, you might not be living in your God-given purpose. Let’s dive into six signs that might be pointing you in a new direction.
1. Lack of Joy and Apathy
You know that blah feeling that sneaks up when you’re just going through the motions? That’s a big red flag. When you’re walking in your purpose, there’s a spark—a sense of joy that comes from knowing you’re doing what God created you to do. But if you’re dragging yourself through the day, thinking, Ugh, I just don’t care anymore or looking at the clock every 5 minutes while working, it’s time to take a step back and ask, When was the last time I felt excited about my work?
2. Chronic Restlessness or Burnout
Let’s be real: Restlessness feels like that annoying itch you can’t scratch, while burnout makes you want to throw in the towel on everything. Both are signs that something’s off. Maybe you’re pouring energy into things that aren’t aligned with your calling. Or maybe God’s trying to get your attention. Either way, if you’re feeling like you’re stuck on a hamster wheel, it’s time to hit pause and pray: Lord, am I doing what You’ve called me to do?
3. Anxiety or Dread at Work
If the thought of starting your day fills you with dread, we’ve got a problem. Sure, work has its challenges, but if anxiety is your daily sidekick, it might mean your current job isn’t aligned with God’s plan for you or your values. Ask yourself: Does this work bring glory to God? Am I using my gifts here? God’s design for work isn’t to make us miserable—it’s to give us a sense of purpose and fulfillment. If that’s not happening, it’s time to reevaluate.
4. An Inner Desire for Change (God’s Nudges)
Ever feel like God is gently whispering, There’s more for you? Those nudges—whether it’s a dream, a persistent thought, or just a deep feeling—are often His way of redirecting you. Are you ignoring them? Yeah, that’s when restlessness and dissatisfaction start to creep in. Instead, lean in and pray: Lord, is this You calling me to something new? And then LISTEN. Trust me, when God’s in it, He’ll guide you every step of the way.
5. Envy or Comparison
Let’s get real: We’ve all scrolled through social media and thought, Why does her life look so much better than mine? If you’re stuck in comparison mode, it’s probably because you’re craving that sense of alignment and purpose you see in others. But here’s the thing—God’s plan for you is yours. No one else can live it, and He’s equipped you with everything you need to fulfill it. So, instead of letting envy get you down, let it inspire you to seek out His unique calling for your life.
6. Feeling Confused and Lost
Sometimes life feels like you’re wandering in circles, unsure of what’s next. That’s confusion talking, and it often shows up when you’re out of alignment with your purpose. But here’s the good news: Confusion can be a setup for clarity. Scripture reminds us: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6, NIV).
If you’re feeling lost, lean into Him—He’ll light the way.
Final Thoughts
If any of these signs resonate with you, know that you’re not alone. REJOICE! Because these feelings are often God’s way of inviting you into something greater. Don’t ignore the nudges, the restlessness or the longing for more alignment in your life. Instead, lean into Him, seek support, and take the next step toward discovering your God-given purpose.
I’d love to walk this journey with you. If you’re ready to explore what’s next or just need someone to talk to, reach out—I’m here to help.
Let’s uncover the amazing plans God has for you together!
